sunny mood, what’s that mean? Means the mood with sunshine, helpful and hopeful. It takes and guides us to the hopefully destination.

the sunny mood let person have great passion. and it let us resolve the problem much more easy, show the best to the others. it’s really hard to do, but take it easy, trust the others, they will guide u to another better life, it will take you into a better day in the future.

well, when the people living in the world, they should talk with another people to get the info about the life, job, working, entertainment and etc., one coin always have two sides as words. The words can express the simple thing over two ways, i.e, how can I help you, you can say the way with impatient and rudely, “what can I do for u” or with excuse and gentle, “is there have sth I can help you”, most people will prefer the 2nd to the 1st. becoz it seems much more helpful and useful when you talking with another strnager with the mannar.

Recently I’d got a man so rude that unimaginable, when I trans a news from the another website, maybe he’d read before on the others website and felt the foto is wrong, he didn’t told me sth about it, dirctly publish an essay as  “pdon’t publish the news there since sth wrong meanwhile can you tell me who’d made the trouble in the news, what’s theirs name, time and etc”, I told the guy, “I have no idea about it since it’d been transed from the others website”, the guy replied “unverified cannot be published online”, that’s really rediculous. As we know, the tel news will verify the truth when it will be published in TV, as a BBS transer, he haven’t got so much time, money to verify whether the issue is true or not. becoz we have our job to do, we just felt the thing is horrible or  interesting and can be commented and publish online, but the guy command me to do sth without sth haven’t been verified! shit! when I email the guy and told he as the private talking, I told the guy, be care what ur words you are using, the guy replied me, take care, guy, u’r so rude that should promote urself asap! oh, shit! when I publish another essay, he said I write the essay just for the guy, actually, his name, info haven’t been mentioned in the essay, what a funny guy he is! Hardly words can describe his action.

we need talking but sometimes we also should learn to say some words at some special time, don’t always take care what the others person looking you, just learn to talk, how to talk, when and where should talk what.

Where is the beef, a kind of saying ask the person “what’s ur main purpose”, in the past, I canot understand the others intension made me felt frustrated, today, sb cannot understand my menas made me mad!

what are they doing now? when I publish the essay, they never understand what I’m writing, I just claim some example they told me “it’s foul” or sth else, but never figure it out how come I publish the essay, hell! as the website master I cannot publish the dirty words in the essay, damn! I wonder what’s they are thinking now. plz help me!

As I’m a Chn, and we’d be taught we should be a useful man in the society, nowadays, we’d graduated from the school, we’d like to be a useful man in the society, the expression should be pay more taxes than the others meanwhile can make more money by ourselves. , otherwise, we’ll be useless. Is it true? I don’t think so. In yesterday, I’d thought for a longer time and felt, be a useful should be various aspects, some are useful for business, some are useful for society, some are useful for the company, some are useful for the family. but right now seems I still haven’t found which aspect I’m useful for sth.

Well, anyway, don’t be worry, write the essay means everybody is useful for some aspects, don’t abandon urself even sometime feel it’s really fail, but the destination is matered on ur hand, take it, in some aspects, u’ll be successful unless u’d abandoned u by urself!

I’m the native speaker in Shanghai, China. In China, the difference to the others European countries is the native language, though in some others places have slang, still not as fruitful native language as China.

Right now, the most popular language in China is Mandarin, when the Chinese push the process of mandarin, they’d ignored even had fogotten native language development. Due to native language only can be understood with native speaker each other, they decided let communication rampart be disappeared, native language, a kind of interesting language in China, it included so many means in the words even in the sentence, almost be a nother culture or civilization. We should protect it meanwhile push the mandarin be popular language in China

As I am a Chinese, suppose smetime only Chinese will say some unimagable things be called “niuability”, but in today, I know, in western, they also have the words such as “nerbility”, “drunbility” and “shability”, what a coincidence, the meaning as well as Chinese, hehe, seems Eng is really hard to learn it as American, hehe, unless I’d made a business trip to the north America. Well, the 1st thing made it seems rediculous, the 2nd thing that is today I’re watching move, I know and seems moveie is not  acted well, still I’d chosen it, when I’d finish the whole movie, I said “shoot, all the case always like that and waste my time…” and turned off the TV, if it’s really worse, I suppose the best solution is turned off TV directly but I did not, still I’d left around one and half hour in the room .

Well, the rediculous things happened everyday, such as in yestonight, yestonight is Chinese time, Valentine’s Day and I’d invited one of my girl friend, just normal friend, take dinner, Everytime I regret I’d invited sb taking dinner, every year, still I’ll invite sb to do it…, sometimes human’s emotion is really hard to say what’s wrong there have, it’s just a kind of emotion. It’s the basic necessarity in our body. Well, how about you?

In China, the Festival is a big day as well as X’mas Day. Chinese Celebrate the day and re-calculate another years lundar day, be called “qi”, it will guide farmer make plant and got the harvest in the new year.

Happy New Year!

Today is the Chinese Calendar, Jan 16th, 2009, after 13 days, spring festival will come. today, let’s talking about a story of Spring festival.

Well, in ancient China, people think “year” is a kind of monster, it will kill the children and eat them, when the lunar calendar arrived another year’s beginning, it will appear. Parents wanna protect theirs children and knock the pans, basins in mental or sth else can be vocalled to avoid the monster eat the children. Meanwhile they also will fire the firecracker let the monster to be scared, that’s the reason why chinese will fire the firecracker at that day.

Right now, we won’believe that, but as the traditional festival, it’s still a big day in China.

Society is really danger and I’d almost got it in yestonight…

There’s a party with the company, after it’d ended, one of my friend told me just wait for a sec, let’s go together, I said, fine. Well, we’d moved and another guy said, it’s too early to go home, let’s go to dinner once more, it’s my treat. Becoz of it’s only 8:30 p.m, we suppose around one and half hour we can go, and agree the invitation. The guy had  got the menu and ordered few dishes, we began drank, and meanwhile talking each other, the time goes quickly, it’s 11:30 already, we just wanna back home, the guy said, mmn, that’s boring, let’s go and take the massage, I really don’t wanna go there, but he’s my colleague but sth made it weird, I told my friend, we cannot follow the guy, otherwise we’ll got the trouble, the man agree, we’d made an excuse and left.

I suppose in case we’d followed the guy, we’ll got a big trouble in the future, we still wanna live in Shanghai as the normal citizen. Take care, in yestonight I’d got the conclusion:

why children like dinner? Becoz they thought it’s dilicious, no body will make trouble with them.

whey adults do not? Becoz they will think maybe it’s the trap and got a lot of trouble in the future, in one word, we need take care dogs and flunkies around us in the society.

today is the last day in 2008, it’s Dec 31st, 2008. After 2 hours, it will be the new year! New year meannt the new life, new friends and new fortune. Chinese new year

In this year, too many amzing things had been met such as Olypics had been held in Beijing China successfully, meanwhile becoz of US economic problem cozed global economic trouble, they will go through accompany with the 2008. 2009 will come and meanwhile the life will be much more better and we hope there will have a brand new hope in the new year, the world will be peace, the society will be stable, the people will be friendly and everything will be better.

Happy new year!!

Well, hallowmas seems a big day in North America, almost be important as X'mas Eve. Children will take the sugar from neighbours., what will u do? Will u take the family party and hold it or join party or drinking? Which u'd like best, tell me.

there have two meaning of the word, one is "life in the world" another one is the "live match from the satelite", today I'd like to tell u a story, it's cruel but menaingful.

I'm not a gossip guy but this thing made me feel angry and shame. I know, most of guys suppose I'm come from American, actually I'm come from Shanghai, China, a Chinese. Well, I don't like "betray", betray meant the guy had lost his virtual, lost the promise and lost the emotion, I cannot afford it esp when another Shanghai woman betrayed her love, accompany with another Chinese return to the China and left her husband isolo in America, what a shameful thing it is!

I'd heared a lot of Chinese go to American and when they'd got the passport they will betray theirs lover, take the fortune should be owned by theirs husband back, I hate the way to "earn" money, actually, it's almost be betray the country, how come? Well, when u'd gone to another stange place, no one can be depended, one day, one guy had appeared and told u "I can let u feel more comfortable, give u the warmth, take u leave the utopia", he trust u never betray he and get marry with u, how come? becoz of faith, but finally when the guy, the "new comer" had got what he/she want, the betray plan actaully almost had started..., the betray let the native thought maybe in China it's the normal. Well, what a shameful thing it is! When u go to America, when sb ask u "where are u come from?", "Shanghai, China", "oh, gush, is it the place the most of people will know how to "betray"?", what u'll think? Is it comfortable? I've no idea.

Well, take care. The story is end and the result I suppose need no more word to say.

WOrkirg everyday in the company made mo feel so boring. Everyday pass by almost the same rd and same scene, life actually is so boring.

We'd better get a better way to idle, otherwise we will lost our own self.

Learn to smile, the best way to release the mood, no matter how aweful thing u'd met, u'll feel 'that's okay'. I don't like loss my temoer, as one of my friends. When he'd made an appointment with me, he take the taxi, he found the driver had reached another route that unknown, he suspect there have some trouble and lost his temper, almost fight with the guy...

Anger is the worst thing in the world, be patient, smile, make the happiness with u!

the adult is a chess?! So ridiculous thing in China is frequently.

Well, in the western, adults will know how to touch the social when they'd been 18-year-old, in China, most of parents will keep children and do not like they touch the society until they'd work. The traditional Chinese culture suppose becoz of these children have no idea how to sort "good thing" or "bad thing", they afraid they will lost his, let they keep learning is a better choice for theirs children.

These solution cozed some guy have higher diploma but do not know how to deal the thing between u and me. Ridiculous enough! There have a funny logitic, pig meant eat and sleep, man meant eat, sleep, working and play., that's to say man also meant "pig", working and playing. Without playing or dealing ability, man only can be a pig which know how to work.

In the civilization world, we need know how to respect to sb, such as u and me, the basic manner is when we are making conversation, u'd better not interupt me unless we are best friends. When u wanna varify what u wanna say, u'd betetter be patient and listen the guy had finish the talking, u can made a conclusion, that's all.

Yesterday, when I'm working, I met one person so rude no sentence can be described.

Actually the guy wanna solve the problem but do not listen to me, he never know how to chick it only push the responsible to the merchant, when I wanna talk with the guy, he interupt me, I'd been interupted for more than three times when I wanna tell he a reason. I felt angry enough, patient should be the best solution to the guy, he'd interupted my talking, he said, I explained, be interupted again, once more, the problem happened again. I'd told the guy, be respected to sb, all people will get the solution, he told me "I see", once more, he'd eaten his promise again.

I tried to be patient, to be calm down and can't help my emotion until he do not wanna cooperation with my work and interupted me again. I'd hang up.

In the civilization society, be patient and calm down, the solution will be here right way!

the motto, "if it's to be it's up to me", well, in the world, we need self confidence, no matter what we do.

2008, China had passed 30 years in reform and opening-up. 30 years, a longer period, right now,  Shanghai had developed, the expo will be held in Shanghai, China., more and more big company had choosen Shanghai as theirs headquaters' location.

The coutry had got the self confidence, they will get the fortune, get the fame as us. If we wanna get the power, be stronger, we  need get the self confidence, trust u can be the better one. Why not say "the best one" since I believe in the world, only the better instead of the best.

Belive what u can, more stronger u r.

Everybody need believe, believe cannot be radical belive, otherwise the world will callapse instead of peace.

Well, fewer days ago, I'd made the quarrel with another guy becoz of the guy like SONY, oh, dear, like some brand is one of our right, I've no idea why when I ask "why u like it?", the war had begun..., hell, too radical to talk with the guy!

Quarral, the little conflict or small battle in the life is standard, always there will have misunderstanding but the purpose of quarral is solve the problem.

I'd like to chat patiently instead of argu something will somebody but the problem still is left. This is the shameful thing in the social. Since we are adult, adultnot only means had grown in body but also means ithe solution to deal the issue. We'll feel sadness since we are person, we will have some misunderstanding, that's okay, since we are person, we will quarral since we are person, we will solve the problem finally since we are adult.

Cheldren will feel happiness for sth for longer period, we're adult, we'd grown up, the game had been odd, everything can be solved so peacefully why not do that? Rediculous!

We know how to educate our child since sth had passed by our own self, but we never know sometimes we are still younger in sometime. Lost temple made us be child again. Argue with sb and always suspect the guy even though he hadn't do anything!

Peace, patient, calm down, do not rude, these words had talked to our child but how much we'd done? How much we'd got for these words? Unfortunately, we'd got 0 score in something even though the others had been done so perfect, how shameful it is! What do you think about it?